Thursday, November 26, 2009

Burn-ing Knowledge

After 16 days, my Ina and I are on our way to full recovery, physically that is. Having this kind of traumatic experience gave me and my husband enough knowledge to know what to know, what to expect and what should be and should not be done to burns. As they say, knowledge is power and thank God for the internet, researching is made easier and more accessible.


Our Ina had second degree burns, I had first. Burns can be due to scalding, electrocution, chemical and fire. Our case was scalding due to hot water. Burns have three types:first, second and third. First degree is characterized by superficial burns. In my experience, I felt this stinging pain and redness and minor swelling can be seen. Healing time should take only 3-6 days. Second degree burns, on the other hand are characterized by redness, severe pain, blisters and in my daughter's case some falling off of skin. Healing period is 2-3 weeks. After two weeks, we are thankful my daughter's are almost healed. While third degree burns are the worst. They appear dry, waxy, leathery and the victim can feel little or no pain at all since the nerves are also damaged. Healing time is longer and skin grafting is needed.


So what does one do when he gets "burned?" In our case, we put toothpaste to a little part of Ina's burnt skin which turned out to be a little dangerous because this may increase the risk of infection. So much for the old school practice, it turned out to be a myth. I washed her arm with water from the faucet which turned out to be the right thing to do but was not able to remove her clothing immediately as I didn't know she had more serious burns in her torso and leg. Now we know that removing clothes and washing for at least 3-5 minutes helps. Seeing her serious burns, we immediately rushed to nearby Makati Med. She was given anaesthesia/pain reliever/sedative through injection because they needed to disinfect her wound. We were washed with sterile water from a medical bottle then a cream was generously applied which is called silver sulfadiazine or flammazine then was covered with a damp gauze followed by a dry one. This was a relief for me because the pain was somehow diminished but I still asked for an oral pain reliever.


The first 24-36 hours is crucial for any burn victim because it will determine the severity of the wound. My case was a little of that sort because a part of my previously first degree burn "progressed" to second degree burn characterized by a blister. It is also important to have a regular check-up or monitoring by a doctor, a surgeon in this case that can check for the wound's state. It somehow helped that we got a pretty cool doctor, who also happens to be the husband of my girls' pediatrician, emphasized to us the importance of cleaning the wound. It also helped that he has this reassuring and "positive" character that lessened our worries. Wounds should be washed with clean water without soup at least twice a day. We didn't take chances, we washed Ina with purified water. It is important to note that washing here means pouring water on the wound to wash out the cream that accumulated on the wound so as to leave it clean again for the next application of flammazine. Dar generously applied cream to the wound and when I say, generously, I really mean A LOT. I believe the fast healing time of my Ina's wounds was due to this antibiotic/antibacterial cream and the attention we put into everything that comes in contact of her wound. Everything was sanitized and disinfected. These were open wounds and they are very susceptible to infection so, again, we don't want to take chances.


Ina's injection didn't make her sleep during the process and she was uneasy and crying but otherwise still calm for her age. She showed tremendous bravery all throughout that still leaves me in awe until now. Her discomfort and pain didn't diminish her laughter, her energy, her naughtiness and charm. More than anything the ordeal made our family stronger. It was a trying time for me and my husband but it made us closer than ever. Without Dar, I couldn't imagine surpassing this. And with Prayers and God's Good Grace my daughter and I are recovering really fast.

Thursday, November 19, 2009

Ina's Song

This is my Ina's favorite song while she is recuperating from her burn wounds.

Imagine a two-year old girl singing this while her Nanay is putting medicine to her wounds. I just feel like posting this song because she sang it at a time when I needed it most.


This might be her way of saying, " Everything will be alright, Nanay."


"Be brave little one.
Make a wish for each sad little tear.
Hold your head up though no one is near
Someone's waiting for you.
Don't cry little one.
There'll be a smile where a frown use to be
You'll be part of the love that you see.
Someone's waiting for you.
Always keep a little prayer in your pocket
and you're sure to see the light.
Soon there'll be joy and happiness
and your little world will be bright
Have faith little one
'Til your hopes and your wishes come true.
You must try to be brave little one.
Someone's waiting to love you. "


My brave, little Ina.

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

A Mother's Birthday Wish

Today I am 35. I can't exactly say it's a happy day for me today because I'm still recovering emotionally, mentally and physically. How can one feel happy and celebrate when six days ago, my Ina and I had a traumatic scalding accident at home?


It was an accident, yes but one that could have been avoided if only our helper's mind wasn't flying. Ina has second-degree burns in her right torso and right upper leg while I have a first degree burn in my right arm. It was a painful experience seeing my daughter's face and hearing her shriek of pain that until now, I can still hear and recall everything. I can still recall the scene that transpired when I ran to the bathroom to wash my daughter's hand not knowing that there were more serious burns in her tummy and leg which were covered with her pajamas. My cry of pain and momentary weakness when I removed her pants to discover the skin falling off from her skin. I fainted. My husband was shouting, Amber was crying, our maid was saying sorry also crying. Everything was a mixture of sadness, worry, pain, anger, confusion and a whole lot more.


Today is my birthday and I'm entitled to cry and share my feelings if I want to. I cry everyday and everytime I see my daughter's wounds. I cry when she suddenly cries and have done everything but she still continues crying. I cry when I can't help her in her pain. I cry when I see her brave face even when I know it is painful. Such a brave girl, my Ina. As my mother says, she's braver than me.


My fervent wish today is for my daughter to get well soon, may my family always be safe, healthy and happy.

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Trick or Treat and a Musicale

October 28. This day started with so much excitement and preparation the day before. Amber and Ina went trick or treating at Toddlers Unlimited along with the other kids. They visited some establishments like Starbucks, Metrobank in the school's building. Clad in their recycled fairy costumes, Amber as the green pixie and Ina as a rose fairy, they were happy to see the other kids donning their own exciting costumes. It lasted for almost 3 hours but the good vibe lasted until the end of the day.


October 30. AM. This was officially the last activity before the first term ends in Amber's school, it was their United Nations Day program. Lola Betty had especially asked a local costurera in Tuguegarao to make a balintawak filipiniana costume for Amber. It was a hit to her teachers and some friends. The costume wasn't the only good thing that happened that day, it was Amber's performance in their class' rendition of "What a Wonderful World" by Louis Armstrong. She was really participating and singing with actions along with her 5 classmates and she did it well, too. We were, of course, proud parents once again.




PM. We had tickets for a play on Pirates, Mermaids and a Musical Presentation. It was a show featuring an orchestra playing music related to pirates, the sea and mermaids. It was a one-hour show but we were there two hours before the show so the girls can go trick or treating (again!) and play/pet with the various musical instruments used in the orchestra. Like the Jack and the Beanstalk play, the kids get to participate in the musicale through dancing and singing and answering the Pirate's questions with an "Aye, Aye, Sir" and " Ahoy!" It was a short play but
worth it. They behaved, participated and had fun.





This year's Halloween was more exciting for the kids. The joy in their faces when they receive some treats is something worth remembering. Just wearing those fairy wings made them feel that one special day. It didn't matter that they wore the same attire that they wore last year. It was more than just the costume, it was the spirit of having fun getting sweets,candies and trinkets with the other kids. I know this will be the start of some more exciting Halloween season that the girls will look forward to.